Attempt to talk to an impudent alpha female, using lines taken from “The Notebook” and she’ll probably shove a box of chocolates down your throat. Try teasing a shy girl about how her nose flares up when she talks, she might bawl uncontrollably. What you need to have to be a great pick up artist is calibration: using the right tools for the right situation. Every individual is different, but there are four major categories of characters you’re likely to encounter on a regular basis. Each of them has a code that needs to be cracked, so checkout our helpful guide below in hookup dating these types of women.
• The Ring Leader
Most likely to be seen: In the middle of her social circle with her friends at her command, defending them from men who would try to hit on them, and reigning over the birdhouse. She’s the boss and she knows it.
How to seduce her: Be alert for any signs of weakness. She is strong, and will not fully respect a man who is unwilling to challenge her. Just go with the flow and you’ll be able to stick around. Girls like guys who can partly agree with them, but who aren’t also afraid to voice their own opinions.
• The Cheerleader
Most likely to be seen: She is the super social babe, always laughing and surrounded by a group of her loyal friends—some she has known for more than ten years, others just over five minutes.
The cheerleader is the type who is always full of life and energy, so the last thing she wants is to go hookup dating with someone who will drag her down, or prevent her inner ball of fire from all those adventures waiting for her out there. The best thing to do is to approach her with as much energy, passion, enthusiasm and that megawatt smile.
• The Bookworm
More likely to be seen: They are now found in computer labs more than the library nowadays. The bookworm is quiet, analytical and not really impressed by any tricks involving cards, magic and other silly maneuvers that could make her friends squirm.
How to seduce her: This is the polar opposite of the cheerleader, which is someone who won’t appreciate you disturbing the order of her universe with anything clichéd, unfortunate, and humorous move. If you want to be funny, try channeling black comedies instead of slapstick. They are naturally aloof, so they don’t have the need to make new friends. This makes being friendly not much of an option. Be observant and have a calm demeanor when making an approach, with a kind of British secret agent coolness. Avoid delivering meaningless jokes, and instead be low energy and appear lost in thought. Once you’ve hooked her by showing that you too can be calm, cultured and not in the slightest bit melodramatic, impress her with a logistically well-thought date plan.
• The Hippie
Most likely to be seen: Speaking about vibes, energy, karma, the cosmic universe, and the astrological signs, the hippie can either be an outsider or a social butterfly.
How to seduce her: Look around for commonalities—ones based on experiences and feeling always rank higher than musical preferences—and then deliver them as if you’d just had an epiphany. “Vibe” is also a good word you can use to define why you approached her, which is perfect for concealing the fact that the reason why you made a move is because she was rocking in that fab see-through top.
