Silly Things Guys Do When They Hookup with Girls

We asked guys to spill the crazy things they do when they hookup with girls. Are you guilty of any of these?

•  Being Her Chauffeur

Guys like to be thought of as useful, and one good way to show this while they hookup with girls is by offering them rides. It can start with small steps, like picking her up when you plan to have dinner at your place, going all the way across town just to get her. This will soon be followed by trips to the furniture store to help her buy hundreds of tea lights. And when she has to leave town to visit her folks, we amazingly come up with a reason why we’re going in the same direction, just so we can spend a few hours in the car with her.

•  Letting Them Get You Into Fights

It can be all traced back to the chest thumping. When we try to hookup with girls, guys should never come off as a weakling. But you have to remember, this doesn’t necessarily mean you have to pick a fight with the first guy you see. But rather, if there is a rowdy group of teenagers in a movie theater, it’s up to you to smack the back of their heads to shut them all up. Of course, this also means you’ll most likely jet jumped at the parking lot and get beaten to a pulp, but you’ll just cross the bridge when you get there.

•  Relocating Your Entire Life

It really sucks big time if you meet a girl you’re into someone you could have something with only to find out she’s leaving town in a few weeks. Some guys cut their losses right there, while others stand their ground and make travel plans. We abandon our careers just to follow that woman. Why? Because love is the best pension plan of all.

•  Being Her Ken Doll

Guys can sometimes be all too easily influenced by a woman’s suggestion, especially when it comes to their wardrobe. He tells himself he looks great, or at least she thinks he looks great, but guys shouldn’t have multiple Ed Hardy shirts or a studded Laguna Beach trucker hat. It’s a given that women like to play dress up, and men almost always like to oblige. His willingness to look like a douche is directly proportional to how much he likes the girl.

His Idea of Adult Dating Material

Here are a few factors that can convince a guy you might be worth giving up his single status for and decide to go steady adult dating with you.

One important thing to remember is guys decide early on if they’re willing to give up their freedom just to have a monogamous adult dating relationship with you. To convince him it’s a sacrifice worth doing, make sure that you…

• Pick Up the Check

Take it easy, we’re not saying that you have to pay for every meal. But if you reach for the check, he’ll immediately know you’re a self-sustaining individual who is not just looking for a free ride. If she looks away or suddenly gets seemingly distracted when the check arrives, some guys like Dirk, 25, feels taken advantage of. When a woman occasionally insists on paying the tab, it shoes she’s interested in you as a person, and not what you can give her.

• Have Plans on Friday Nights

Yes, you want to see him and he appreciates the gesture, but when you send him a steady barrage of email and text messages asking him what he wants to do this weekend, it can be suffocating. What he needs to know so he can have a progressive relationship with you is reassurance that you have your own life one that doesn’t revolve only around him. “My current girlfriend is the first I ever dated who frequently told me, ‘Sorry, already have plans’ because she had a lot of stuff going on,” says Adam, 30. “Although, I soon realized that if I wanted to be with her, I’d have to make plans in advance, which made me want her even more!”

• Love His Guy Stuff

“My idea of long-term adult dating material is someone who will give me a pat on the back after an awesome day at the golf course and will laugh with me when I tell her about all the funny stuff my friends and I did one night at a bar crawl,” says Brian, 27. It may be asking a lot, but guys don’t want women who will just be catty and complain about our manly activities or the company we keep.

• Unleash Your Lust

When a man looks at their future with a girl, he wants to imagine wild nights with mind-blowing sex. So if you’re already an eager beaver in bed to begin with, he’ll know he has a lot to look forward to in your potential adult dating relationship.

Adult Sex Tips – The Naughtiest Trick There Is

Physical sensations become less thrilling when you repeat a routine too often, even if it seems pretty daring. That is why many adult dating partners get bored and break up with each other after quite some time because adult sex is not as hot as they started. So you should occasionally, go a little further and the sensations will be extra-powerful and blissful. And, you get the thrill of doing something wicked. Now, think of the naughtiest trick you’ve ever tried in bed and try it tonight! But fear not if you cant think of any. Because here, we give you the naughtiest adult sex tips and moves that you can try tonight. Bring it on.

Try A Bit Of Bondage – Getting tied up instantly boosts the sexual energy, because it brings in the element of vulnerability. When you’re bound, you’re completely at the mercy of your partner’s urges, which is exciting. Plus, you can focus entirely on being pleasured, since you’re not able to reciprocate.

Give Him A Peep Show – Much of arousal is driven by what we see–especially for guys. Many men love watching a woman get turned on. It lets them know what gets her going and makes them feel like they’re doing something illicit by just sitting back and enjoying the show. And, it’s great for women, too. Seeing how a guy reacts to watching you pumps up your desire.

Handle His Package – Usually for foreplay, you touch him so he’s hard, but stroking him until he climaxes is rarely the main event. Once a couple start having sex, hand jobs often stop. Manhandling him will show your dirty desire to take charge. So the next time he’s on the phone, come up behind him, unzip his pants, and go to work. Doing something so naughty while the person on the other end of the phone has no idea ups the wicked factor and makes everything feel more intense.

Test-Drive Twisty, Torrid Positions – Nothing screams naughty like providing a view and finding new angles neither of you is used to. One tip: Do it in various parts of your house, because it’ll force you to accommodate your positions to the different obstacles.

Plan A Sneak Attack – Ambushing your guy turns you into a total sex vixen and makes him feel extremely wanted. When you’re not expecting something, your senses are heightened, making it easier to enjoy every touch during a hook-up. Guys expect morning sex before they get out of bed, so he’ll be totally shocked if you jump him when he gets out of the shower. Slip into the bathroom, and position yourself naked on the sink, so he’s surprised by the stunning scenery when he pulls aside the curtain. Then, have him stand in front of you, so you can wrap your legs around him.

Try these tips tonight and enjoy a mind blowing adult sex! Enjoy!

Adult Sex Tips To Boost Confidence

While having adult sex it is definitely given that men are more dominant and thus women are shy. In fact, many women are so shy that after they took off their clothes, they go under the sheets or turn off the lights. But ladies, this would not work! You need confidence! Here are some adult sex tips for ladies to boost their confidence in bed and have mind blowing sex without all those insecurities and shyness!

1. Undress Slowly. When you’re self-conscious, the impetus is to get your bare body under the sheets–stat. But, spend at least five seconds removing each article of clothing one by one. Its enticing eye candy for him to watch you shed every layer, plus pacing yourself puts you in control. It also turns the act of disrobing into a sensual process, rather than a sudden, jarring display of your body.

2. Stretch Out. – Nothing says sex kitten like languidly extending across the mattress pre-sex. Lie flat with your arms up over your head. Not only will the stretch itself feel terrific and put you in a lusty frame of mind, but your stomach will look flatter and your boobs will be lifted higher as well.

3. Tilt Your Head Back. During foreplay, let your head and torso fall back so he can kiss and caress your throat, collarbone, and breasts. Revealing this vulnerable area shows him you’re uninhibited. And by surrendering to the moment, you’ll become freer to focus on sensations, which boosts confidence.

4. Show Pleasure. You know guys ache to hear you make sounds during the act, but it’s just as important to convey your bliss visually, too. In an Emory University study, men shown erotic photos depicting sexual acts looked at the naked women’s faces for longer than they gazed at the women’s below-the-belt bits. The reason: They were possibly searching for signs that the females were enjoying themselves. So close your eyes and let your lips part. When he sees that you’re having a good time, his kisses and touches will become more passionate, increasing your satisfaction, too. And, making an expression that looks sexy can actually trigger you to feel sexier.

5. Straddle Him. A sex kitten is always ready to pounce. When you hop on top of your guy, it shows your libidinous hunger, and that’s a blatant clue to your between-the-sheets voraciousness. Straddling him reinforces that you are steering the experience. In addition to amping up your sense of erotic empowerment, he’ll be excited by the fact that you’re dominating him.

6. Get Spooned. Bring that self-assured attitude with you post-nookie, too. Lie on your side, and pull your guy up behind you, with your butt pressed into him. Feeling his privates pushed up against you will remind you of the naughty act that went down and underline your sexual hold over him. To drive the point home, grind against him, and then grab his hands and place them so they’re cupping your breasts. It sends him a message that even though sex itself is over, you still emanate brazen seductiveness.

The Things Sexy Girls Shouldn’t Do In the Bedroom

I always find it hilarious when sexy girls need advice with regards to sex.  Personally, the responsibility lies on the guy to perform, and the girl to direct faster, slower, harder, right there, a little to the left, to the right.
Guys have pretty simple needs when it comes to pleasing us sexually.  We really don’t ask for much, but all the magazine articles make it seem like we’re made of a complex matrix of codes that’s too hard figure out in bed.  I’m not saying you just clock in and clock out, because it’s always great to mix it up, but you don’t have to pull something out from left field to get things done.  It’s quite hard for sexy girls to suck when having sex, but here are a few ways they can:

•  Machine gunning our junk

From what I’ve heard through the grapevine, a lot of female magazines tell its readers to treat our pleasure pole like an ice cream cone.  Sometimes they say nibble at it a little.  If you’re not into giving blowjobs and just want to give a hand job, please use some kind of lube.  Your favorite bottle of KY, your spit, hand lotion, a stick of butter you can use anything safe and slick to avoid making our hot rod get road rash.  Slow, long and wet generally lead to bigger and more pleasant climaxes.

•  Finger up the ass

Having quite a double standard, do we?  Many guys do all sorts of groveling just to get their girl to do anal, and those who end up caving in rarely enjoy the experience.  Yet, we’ll leave the country if you even hint at sticking anything up our ass.  I’ve had the unfortunate experience of having a couple of girls try this on me and it’s a total boner killer that is near impossible to come back from.

•  Chocking, hitting, scratching

Some people might be into this, but if you’re getting it on with a new partner, you might want to save the asphyxiation until the third date.  This is probably something you should both discuss before diving into it head-first.

•  Stay silent

So trash talking is out, and you’re probably not that good in talking dirty.  But if the only things we hear are crickets, the bed squeaks and the occasional ball slap, things can get awkward.  You don’t have to say anything award-winning, but moaning in pleasure or whispers of “yes” can go a long way.

Things Hot Girls Want You to Do Without Being Asked

Ever wonder why hot girls get annoyed when their boyfriends didn’t do something they wanted them to do, even if they didn’t actually spell it out for them?  It doesn’t take a genius to figure out that men are far from being psychic, which can be a big problem for hot girls who want guys to know how to read their minds.  If you’ve failed playing Professor X one too many times, or have stared confused at her disgusted face, this list is for you.

•  Stop trying to fix it and just let us vent

This may go against everything you guys stand for in trying to find answers in every problem or even suggest a solution, but there are times when this is not the best solution.  Sometimes we just want you to be supportive, shut up and just listen.

•  Be willing to skip bro time once in rare circumstances

This may sound like “ditching your friends and being whipped,” but this is not what it means.  There may be times when she gets all crazy and tell you to go out with your buddies instead of doing something with her you’re not that thrilled to do, but they are lying.  What she really means is “I’m going to make you pay for this.”  She is just hoping you skip on carrying on with your “cooler” plans and be considerate enough to be with her.  If you feel like it’s a trap, it would be best to be on the safe side and ask her if she wants you to stick to her side.

•  Do something thoughtful and unsolicited

This doesn’t have to be something grand, but sometimes it feels nice to be sweet just because.  You don’t have to get her an expensive box of chocolates or a dozen red roses, which is kind of cliché if you ask me, but it could be the small, meaningful things like bringing her a cup of coffee while she’s nursing a hangover or letting her pick the restaurant you want to have a meal at.  Guys are inclined to give gifts that are more about them and less about their girls, so showcasing your thoughtful side can score major points, especially if it’s not even asked.

•  Know when to step up and when to step back

Family matters, girl issues or things that can get you arrested these are the instances where you should maintain a low profile.  It’s nice to come to our honor’s defense when a guy starts to hit on us, but don’t start a brawl over it.  However, there are times when we would like you to step up and take the initiative, even if we don’t ask you to.  Never make your girl make the first move, open her own car door or introduce herself to your family, friends, or colleagues.  That’s your job, guys, and don’t’ you forget that.

Getting Your Girl to Make an Adult Sex Tape

Women are sensitive creatures, so launching yourself at her whilst holding a camera will not win you a recorded adult sex video with her.  And if you think that making home movies of you two under the sheets is a distant dream, think again.  Using a little strategic Prince Charming moves will make you bask in the desired outcome forever.  Here are a few tips to help you make sure she doesn’t run away in terror.

If you really want to make kinky amateur adult sex videos regularly and not just a one off thing, then never evaluate each other’s performance.  The only sure way to convince her to do it again is to be super sensitive.

No one can be more critical of a woman than she herself, and giving “constructive” accounts of her performance on film will never go well for you.  The important thing to remember is everything that comes out of your mouth while watching the video footage must be of praise and admiration.  If not, then shut your trap.
Make your favorite parts of the video known to her, how much it turns you on, and how sexy and gorgeous you think she is.  She will be so flattered, she would want to give it another shot.

By far, the most essential element of the whole process is trust.  She must know that she’s not going to be that girl with a facial shot that magically appeared in all of the guys’ cell phones in your city.

Your safest and easiest bet to prove you won’t turn her into a porn star in a fit of breakup rage is to let her keep the only copy of the recording.  It’s 2012 and digital recordings are easier to share, so let her keep it and swear to keep it strictly between you even if the relationship hits an untimely demise.

If you want a huge pay off, you must put a little effort in it.  This means a spiffy bedroom sans all the traces of food, animals or any other type of clutter that can be an eye sore.  However disreputable your intentions are, you must never let her know.  As far as she’s concerned, you are the most romantic man she has ever known, and thinks of no other woman but her.

Clean up, put in clean sheets and dim the lights.  If you can take it, light some scented candles.  Women love them, and will always do.  If your place is just ghastly, book a hotel.  Now that everything’s set up, you’re ready to shoot.

How to Pick Up Sexy Girls on Facebook

As we all know, social media websites are useful tools that can help you find smokin’ sexy girls that may share common friends, backgrounds, and interests with you.  If you want to score sexy girls that love basketball and beer-chugging, Facebook may be your golden ticket.  Seven percent of the world’s population is currently using this social networking site, which translates to 21 million women that could possibly be your next potential ex girlfriend.  However, you should be careful in navigating your way through the uncharted terrain of social media dating.  You wouldn’t want to send a message to all the sexy girlsthat are in your “People You May Know” list.  Here are a few tips to help you pick up chicks without looking like a total creeper.

•  Have a flattering profile photo

Nothing shouts “I am not date material” louder than a picture of your old fratboy days, chugging beer in a bong.  Remember, a good first impression is key.
Use a photo that is naturally pleasing to the eyes.  Try uploading one with you watching a basketball game or one that shows you playing with your dog.  Girls are going to love it.

•  Include a list of your activities and interests

If you intend to connect with a hottie who shares the same love you have for Rebecca Black, then by all means include that ghastly bit of information in your profile interests.  This will help women find out about your dynamic personality and eclectic taste in music.
Another good idea is to join fan pages and interest groups.  This can expand your dating network and help you meet a cutie that you can actually connect with.

•  Browse through your local network

Try looking for girls that are located in your own city.  Browse through your local network and get in touch with loads of hotties in your own backyard.
Also, go through a list of your friend’s friends.  This gives you a common personal connection and a good ice breaker for a potential first date.

•  Use the poke feature

This may look childish and cheesy, but Facebook’s “poke” feature is just the online version of throwing rocks at your kindergarten crush.  There is something about a cute and flirty interaction that a lot of girls appreciate.

•  Use the chat feature

If you want to take your flirtation to the next level, send a personal online message directly to her.  This will surely get immediate results, so you won’t spend hours or even days brooding if she’ll ever respond.

The Best Places to Have Adult Sex

Familiarity breeds contempt, so when having adult sex with your girl, you need to mix it up a bit.  How?  Experiment try something new.  Try having adult sex at places you wouldn’t normally do, basically.  Bang her someplace you would normally do something except have adult sex, like drive, wash or swim.  Good?  I thought so.

•  In a Tent

Pros:  Banging in a tent can be a fun thing to do.  If you’re having a marvelous time at a festival, all buzzed up as you giggle back to the campsite in your red Indian outfit when it starts to rain, sex in a cozy tent when it’s can be a pretty fun way to let the downpour pass and stay dry.  It’s also relatively comfortable to do if you can avoid being fallen on by an intoxicated carouser.
Cons:  Doing it here may feel like you’re in a bedroom, however, you are not really in a bedroom.  The only thing that separates your stark naked bodies from the elements is a piece of canvas that is by no means soundproof.

•  In a Hotel

Pros:  Sex and room service that’s what staying in hotels is all about.  Relaxing in a hotel all-day long and rolling around in fluffy clean sheets you’ll never have to wash sounds about perfect.
Cons:  However, you may think the ‘do not disturb’ sign at the door means don’t come in, but it really doesn’t.  So unless you don’t want housekeeping to come in and see you doing the nasty, then it would be prudent to get sex out of the way before 10am.  And whatever you do, don’t let the thought of the hundreds of other guys who have unloaded in your bed creep you out.

•  On the Beach

Pros:  You’re on a holiday at some resort and the sound of the waves crashing on a warm night is just enough amount of cheese to be romantic, and the element of danger in being caught out in the open makes it exciting.
Cons:  Sand on the genitals is not really pleasant if you think about it, so be mindful of the friction factor.   That may sound similar to a Simon Cowell reality talent show, but it can really hurt.  If it’s possible, find a deck chair or a small grassy patch of land to avoid any undesirable injuries.

Wow Sexy Women with Words

Do you want to be an expert pick up artist?  Here are a few easy steps to woo sexy women with words.

•  Don’t Put Yourself Down

Self-deprecation can be funny under the right circumstances, but this isn’t one of them.  Sexy women like guys who are oozing with confidence.

•  Get Her to Talk

No man can score on sexy women just by talking them into submission, so your goal is to engage her in conversation.  Questions about relationships work well, like getting her take on something.  Tell her that a buddy of yours thinks that when a woman leaves a man, it’s always the man’s fault, but you think that’s extreme.  90 percent of the time she’ll think about what you said and react; 10 percent of the time she’ll just brush it off.  But whatever she does leads to the next step…

•  Challenger Her

Mocking her in jest is important as it shows you are not treating her as special, so gently ridicule her response to put her on the back foot and let her know you are unimpressed, which is something she is not used to.

•  Demonstrate Value

This is very important.  You need to stand out from all the other guys in the room by doing something that can make you look special.  This is what demonstrating value is, and this comes from the fact that many sexy women have a void inside them, because they think that a lot of guys just talk to them mainly for their looks.  You can fill this void by talking to “the woman inside,” and have them learn something spiritual about themselves.

•  Make Your Move on a Cliffhanger

At some point in the process, you may have to move to a “quieter location.”  But when you do, you will need to 1) do it in the middle of a story, so the cliffhanger will make it look natural to come with you, and 2) point out that it’s only going to be just a few minutes, so it will feel like there’s nothing to lose.

•  Set Up a Takeaway

This will come after you’ve whisked her away from her friends.  While finishing your story, make it look like you just noticed a friend who “will kill you if you don’t say hi.”  This may seem risky, but it works because it means you leave her all alone, which will make her feel lost, and shows you are confident enough to leave her.

•  And Finally, Seed Your Next Location

Guys who are desperate go for the kill during the first meeting.  On the other hand, successful men seed in the next place they are going and describe how awesome it is.  Rave on about how fantastic this place is, but don’t invite her directly.  Instead, shift on a different subject.  And when you are about to leave, say, “You know what?  I’m sure you’ll enjoy this place too.  Maybe you should come join us.”

Adult Sex Tips: Going Burlesque in the Bedroom

You don’t have to wait for a burlesque dance troupe to hit your city just to enjoy retro adult sex antics.  Thanks to our panel of experts made up of a scene stalwart and a dance instructor, you will be able to recreate Club Noir in the comforts of your home.  Your only requirement:  a relatively willing partner.

•  Shopping – Fashion lingerie company La Perla’s Black Label collection will give you an imaginative twist on the vintage burlesque genre.  For purists, they can always opt for corsets from Vollers, a British corset company established in 1899.  There are also online burlesque shopping boutique’s to check out like What Katie Did for fluffy girls and Modern Courtesan for those high-maintenance ones.

•  Setting the Mood – In setting the right mood, lighting is very important.  Ditch those overhead bulbs and opt instead to go sultry with lamplight using a soft red bulb.

•  Soundtrack – Jazz music works better than classic musical hall tunes.  You will need something that’s slow, so don’t be tempted to use tracks from the Pussycat Dolls.  If all you’ve got is an old CD with James Bond themes, it could work.

•  Props – Artistes use boas, ostrich feathers, gloves and cigarette holders to slowly remove in their routines.  You can peruse over Bo’s Tit Bits site (bos-tit-bits.com) and check out their sparkly nipple tassles (politically correct term:  pasties), masks and riding crops.  Red velvet curtains help the audience be removed from the fact that they are in a lounge.

•  Chairs – The use of chairs can be awesome.  You can do the sexy Sharon Stone quick flash, and, of course, prop your leg up on the chair to remove your stockings.

•  Stockings – Wearing stockings is very essential.  There will be lots of rubbing them up and down that, plus sexy finger wagging.  Stick your thumb under the top elastic and ease it down.  Hold on to the back of the chair, throw the leg back, reach behind and pull it off so it snaps.

•  Gifts – A fantastic performance certainly deserves gratitude.  So what can you give her?  Diamonds, of course.  A bottle of bubbly is also appropriate.

The Routine

•  Strut and Tease – The catwalk strut is the basic walk.  There should be no slouching, back straight, butt out and head raised up confidently.  Your movements should be all about the tease and the premise of mind-blowing adult sex move slowly and savor the performance.  This requires a lot of focus and sensuality compared to just dancing naked around a pole.

Massage Tips: Rubbing Your Casual Sex Partners the Right Way

If you think a good massage involves greasing your casual sex partners up like a fast food burger, then our tantric masseuse gives you this handy guide to becoming a massage maestro.  Read on.

•  Set the Scene

Your primary concern is making sure the room you’ll be using is nice and comfortable.  You’ll want your casual sex partners to feel relaxed.  Use some towels to absorb the massage oil.  Make use of soft lighting scented candles or dim lamps because it’s more flattering.  Ask her to take a shower first, so she’s clean and has warm skin.

•  The Feet

For a relaxing start, go with the feet first.  A good foot massage will immediately make her feel relaxed and forget all her troubles.  Firmly but gently work along the sole.  You don’t have to spend much time there, but just a few minutes can make a huge difference.

•  The Legs

Move on to her legs and use long, smooth strokes, using your palms while keeping your fingers together.  The objective of a sensual massage is to build her into a state of excitement, so stroke over her butt.  At this point, you could stroke her gently down between her legs, slowly exciting her with your fingers.  It is crucial to maintain a gentle touch throughout this process.

•  The Back

Use similar strokes up her back and around the shoulders.  Many women really like it when guys play with their neck and ears, so blow gently into her ear and around her neck.  If you can’t help it, you could also use a little tongue, but just a little.  You wouldn’t want to slobber over her like a St. Bernard over dropped ice cream.  She will definitely not like this.
•    The Abdomen
Regardless of what a woman says, she is likely to be a little paranoid about her tummy.  This is the reason why women prefer to be massaged when they’re lying on her stomach.  It makes them feel safe and comfortable.  To do this, it’s better to start with her face down, and just try to turn her over once she feels more relaxed.

•  The Breasts

Once you have her turned over and lying flat on her back, gently stroke the outside area of her breasts in long figures of eight.  She may even enjoy it if you blow gently on her nipples.

•  The Yoni

Yoni is a Sanskrit word for vagina.  For this part, you should switch from massage oil to lubricant.  When she’s lying face down, move your hand between her legs and gently stroke her down to the labia.  Move along to the length of each other lip, gently holding it between your forefinger and thumb for an extended moment.  This will result in a highly sexual experience.

Dating Tips Online: To Pay or Not to Pay?

What’s the standard etiquette on paying for dinner on a first date? On principle, I don’t mind, but I go out on a lot of dates and it’s getting pretty expensive. And isn’t it also a little old-fashioned with the fact that most of these women earn as much, or even more, than I do? Does it look like I’m paying in return for getting laid? What do you do? – Brian Mitchell

To help Brian and give him a couple of dating tips online, we asked the assistance of two different women with slightly different takes on the matter.  Which of these dating tips online is better?  You be the judge.

Offering to pay for dinner on a first date is not like paying for you to bang her. It sends out a message to the girl you’re dating, saying “I’m a man. I will build you things and rid you of spiders and other creepy crawlies while you bake your cake.”  Not offering to pay, or even suggesting to split the bill on a first date is deplorable.  If I was out on a date with you and you got your wallet out upon asking for the check, I would probably offer to share, unless you’ve spent the whole evening just talking about yourself.  Maybe that’s where your mistakes lie? – Helen

Yes, I agree.  It’s totally old-fashioned, but girls love it.  However, you should take this as a compliment, because if I don’t like the guy, I’ll insist on paying half I don’t want to feel indebted to him.  But if I do like him, I will let him pay.  Technically, if you asked her out on a date, it’s considered an invitation with you as the host, which would apply regardless if your guest is a guy or a girl.  Why not take your dates for a cocktail after work?  It’s going to save you time and money.  Sure, it may be a little straightforward, but in this way you can be more selective on who you want to take out for dinner.

Finding the Right Wingman to Help You Meet Sexy Girls

A good wingman is like your own personal spotter when you’re on a sniping mission to score on sexy girls. So which buddy will you best benefit from?  Here are four qualities to consider when choosing a reliable sidekick that will help you in the trenches.

1.    Eagle Eye Vision

An effectively good wingman should have the ability to scout out the most doable sexy girls with superhuman precision. He should be also be able to spot women with engagement or wedding rings from across a room and must have spider-sense that lets him know which are on the rebound, horny, or just psycho-crazy.  He can also tell you in just mere seconds whether the girl you’re into is a waste of time or worth the $7 drink you’re buying her.  He will assess the crowd, so you don’t even have to.  This will help you focus on looking cool, confident and collected.

2.    Does Recon

It is a wingman’s major duty to gather and remember all useful information.  He must be able to know all the details regarding the target, including the names of her friends.  It is important that he is funny, outgoing, yet subtle.  He should be charming, a smooth talker, and unaffected by rejection.  A good wingman doesn’t have second thoughts in making himself look silly, corny or clueless to iron out a situation for you.  It’s a job well done if he makes you look like Superman.

3.    Will Take a Bullet

A very efficient wingman can and will take one for the team if the situation calls for it.  He will focus his attention on the chubby friend, the protective sister, or drunk colleague.  If needed, he will take home the “not so pretty” girl.  A true wingman doesn’t need to prove he can get girls, because you are his top priority, and in under any situation will he ever attempt to cockblock you.  What he’ll do instead is seek out and remove any possible hurdles, so you could easily sashay you way, steal the scene, and get the girl.

4.    Has Your Back at All Times

Like a personal assistant, a true wingman is there to ensure you don’t have anything stuck between your teeth, you smell good, or your breath isn’t bad.  Toilet paper stuck under your shoe?  He’ll steps on it to take it away.  Tag sticking out your jacket?  He swings in to make you look like red carpet material.  And one more thing:  by no means should he look better than you.

Dating Tips Online - Do's and Don'ts

For many years now, internet has become part of our everyday life. Whether it is used for communication, job search, hobbies, research, studying or just searching anything- name it- everything can be found at the internet. In fact, even dating can now happen thru the use of internet. Online dating has become popular way of meeting and dating people. In recent studies, it shows that a large number of couples have met either through online dating services or through other places on the internet and now have a successful love story.

If you are a single, wants a date but inexperienced or you are just too shy, then online dating is the best solution. There are many online dating site found on the internet whether you are looking for a serious date or a date just for fun. Online dating offers the opportunity to communicate freely and get to know each other before actually meeting face to face.

With online dating you are not going to be judge by your physical appearance rather by the way you speak. Also, you have the chance not to meet one person but a huge number of people. Joining an online dating site will also help you boost your confidence and gain many friends.

So how can you exactly enjoy and benefit from this brave new world? Well, the answer really depends on how you will handle yourself once you are sitting in front of your computer, searching for someone and connecting with them. Here are the do's and don'ts for dating online that can help you maximize your online experience and hopefully, have you on the way to finding your perfect match.

DO’s:
Dating tips online #1: Be Honest. Make sure that you are completely honest with what you put on your profile. The whole purpose of online dating is to find someone who will likes you, so it is very important that you are honest in writing down your interest, likes and what makes you nerve. Don't put anything that is unreal for the sake of impressing someone else. Being honest goes along with being positive and being realistic.

Dating tips online #2: Be Precise. Be specific and concise. No one would like to read a very long profile of yours. Tell directly who and what do you want to meet. And at the same time, think about who you are and what makes you unusual, and list both your successes and your failures.

Dating tips online #3: Be a good listener. Online dating is a two way communication dating (just like in real world). One should know how to listen. If your online date mate is not listening, be cautious as this could be the sign that he doesn't like you.

Dating tips online #4: Be careful on what you say. Avoid talking issues about religion and politics not until you are close enough with person you chatting with. Learn to communicate with others in the way in which they feel most comfortable.

Dating tips online #5: Use only your photo. Make sure that is the updated one. Don't ever lie with your picture. Keep in mind that if your online dating becomes successful, you will still have to face him or her in the real world. And of course you would not like to disappoint your partner just because you posted a wrong photo of yours.

Dating tips online #6: Never ever give your personal information such as your complete name, home or company address or home phone number. You can at least provide him/ her your cellphone number. Remember, above anything else, safety first!

Dating tips online #7: Don’t continue to communicate with someone who mysteriously disappears then comes back online under another identity.

Dating tips online #8: Meet only in public places and make sure someone knows where you are.

Dating tips online #9: Be ready for rejection. You can always be ignored by the person you like on the internet but remember there are many fish in the sea. Don't lose hope. Be patient in looking for another one. Remember, there are millions of singleton who is looking for a perfect soulmate too.

Dating tips online #10: Enjoy and make the most out of online dating services. Connect with cool people from anywhere you choose at the pace, time, and location that is best for you.
Play it smart but keep an open mind. Be smart and have fun.

Adult Dating Thrills without Breaking the Bank

Happiness when you are married is actually cheaper than you think. Believe it or not, it won’t even go beyond twenty bucks, max, at least according to our expert writers who strongly believe that happiness don’t really have to cost a fortune when you are hitched. You can still do experience adult dating thrills without breaking the bank.

$20 Max Dates
Would it kill you if your wife knew you are a cheapskate? Well, chances are, she knows how much you have in the bank, your loans, mortgages and she knows pretty much that you have several bouncing kids that need to be fed, clothed and sent to college in the future. So if you’re a cheapskate, then there’s a huge possibility that she would still appreciate it. You don’t have to bother with a super-date where virtuosi serenade you if you really have to budget your money.

It’s still great to just have a simple dinner and a movie or a long walk at sunset or window shopping at a mall. You can go wine tasting, museum hopping or just simply pack a lunch and go picnic at the lake or at the Mountain View.

It wouldn’t kill you too, if you save $20 every time you received your salary (which is twice a month) and then have a big surprise date by the end of the year or in your anniversary.

Affordable Lingerie
The great thing about cheap lingerie is that they could also get lacey and sexy and what’s better is that you can rip them apart easily and your wife wouldn’t even care if it’s ruined since it’s cheap anyway. Lingerie shopping aside from lingerie tearing in bed, is a fun way to spend time with your partner. You can get great opinions from your better half about what you will be strapping yourself with in the future. You don’t have to spend so much money on expensive lingerie, just go for affordable ones.

Affordable Jewelry
After the lingerie then you should definitely go for affordable jewelry. Buying jewelry can be quite intimidating for a lot of people but you don’t have to go through all the trouble of going to a jewelry shop. You can take your partner to a crafts fair or art fair with hobos and hippies selling their homemade stuff on blankets laid on the pavement. There are handmade beads and your partner can even do it herself. Cheap, no trouble and very convenient.

These adult dating tips will definitely not push you to a state of brokenness. And instead will push your relationship on to a new level of romance and intimacy.

Hookup Dating and Love Side Effects

Have you been experiencing some of these side effects of hookup dating or having sex with your partner? Research shows that when ladies are in love or just hookup dating with someone they experience side effects. Fortunately, these side effects are nothing to be worried about, we actually encourages you to have sex so that you’ll have these side effects when in a relationship! People may want to have these side effects immediately upon discovering the great things about it. So as not to stall too long, here we have our love side effects that you should be getting when in a relationship.

Love Side Effects 1: Healthy Breasts
The benefit of the intimate affection that your partner gives you has several ways than one. Breast lumps in women are initially noticed by their own partners said Donnica Moore, M.D., the author of Women’s Health for Life, who stresses that early detection is the key to beating breast cancer. Of course, your part shouldn’t be your only detections device, you should also try checking yourself and try to talk to a doctor about clinical breast exams.

Love Side Effects2: Thicker Hair
Your partner may sometimes make you want to pull out your own hair but women who are in happy relationships have hair that are 2.3 times as thick as those who have lost a partner or gotten divorced. This new research from Case Western University in Cleveland claims. The difference is perhaps due to the added stress, the researchers say. However, if you notice thinning then you should talk to a doctor about anxiety and other possible culprits like lack of vitamins or event the possibility of thyroid issues.

Love Side Effects 3: Sleep like a baby
This is one is probably one of the best side effects there is. Women who are in strong marriages are 50 percent less prone to have trouble sleeping or staying asleep compared with unhappily paired ladies, according to a study from the University of Pittsburgh. It seems that the sense of safety and security that you can get from happy coupling can give you the blessing of resting easier. If you are sleeping alone then remember that a consistent bedtime routine can help greatly says study author Wendy Troxel, Ph. D.

These hookup dating and love side effects would definitely leave you enjoying a relationship more. So enjoy and stay in love.