The Things Sexy Girls Shouldn’t Do In the Bedroom

I always find it hilarious when sexy girls need advice with regards to sex.  Personally, the responsibility lies on the guy to perform, and the girl to direct faster, slower, harder, right there, a little to the left, to the right.
Guys have pretty simple needs when it comes to pleasing us sexually.  We really don’t ask for much, but all the magazine articles make it seem like we’re made of a complex matrix of codes that’s too hard figure out in bed.  I’m not saying you just clock in and clock out, because it’s always great to mix it up, but you don’t have to pull something out from left field to get things done.  It’s quite hard for sexy girls to suck when having sex, but here are a few ways they can:

•  Machine gunning our junk

From what I’ve heard through the grapevine, a lot of female magazines tell its readers to treat our pleasure pole like an ice cream cone.  Sometimes they say nibble at it a little.  If you’re not into giving blowjobs and just want to give a hand job, please use some kind of lube.  Your favorite bottle of KY, your spit, hand lotion, a stick of butter you can use anything safe and slick to avoid making our hot rod get road rash.  Slow, long and wet generally lead to bigger and more pleasant climaxes.

•  Finger up the ass

Having quite a double standard, do we?  Many guys do all sorts of groveling just to get their girl to do anal, and those who end up caving in rarely enjoy the experience.  Yet, we’ll leave the country if you even hint at sticking anything up our ass.  I’ve had the unfortunate experience of having a couple of girls try this on me and it’s a total boner killer that is near impossible to come back from.

•  Chocking, hitting, scratching

Some people might be into this, but if you’re getting it on with a new partner, you might want to save the asphyxiation until the third date.  This is probably something you should both discuss before diving into it head-first.

•  Stay silent

So trash talking is out, and you’re probably not that good in talking dirty.  But if the only things we hear are crickets, the bed squeaks and the occasional ball slap, things can get awkward.  You don’t have to say anything award-winning, but moaning in pleasure or whispers of “yes” can go a long way.

Things Hot Girls Want You to Do Without Being Asked

Ever wonder why hot girls get annoyed when their boyfriends didn’t do something they wanted them to do, even if they didn’t actually spell it out for them?  It doesn’t take a genius to figure out that men are far from being psychic, which can be a big problem for hot girls who want guys to know how to read their minds.  If you’ve failed playing Professor X one too many times, or have stared confused at her disgusted face, this list is for you.

•  Stop trying to fix it and just let us vent

This may go against everything you guys stand for in trying to find answers in every problem or even suggest a solution, but there are times when this is not the best solution.  Sometimes we just want you to be supportive, shut up and just listen.

•  Be willing to skip bro time once in rare circumstances

This may sound like “ditching your friends and being whipped,” but this is not what it means.  There may be times when she gets all crazy and tell you to go out with your buddies instead of doing something with her you’re not that thrilled to do, but they are lying.  What she really means is “I’m going to make you pay for this.”  She is just hoping you skip on carrying on with your “cooler” plans and be considerate enough to be with her.  If you feel like it’s a trap, it would be best to be on the safe side and ask her if she wants you to stick to her side.

•  Do something thoughtful and unsolicited

This doesn’t have to be something grand, but sometimes it feels nice to be sweet just because.  You don’t have to get her an expensive box of chocolates or a dozen red roses, which is kind of cliché if you ask me, but it could be the small, meaningful things like bringing her a cup of coffee while she’s nursing a hangover or letting her pick the restaurant you want to have a meal at.  Guys are inclined to give gifts that are more about them and less about their girls, so showcasing your thoughtful side can score major points, especially if it’s not even asked.

•  Know when to step up and when to step back

Family matters, girl issues or things that can get you arrested these are the instances where you should maintain a low profile.  It’s nice to come to our honor’s defense when a guy starts to hit on us, but don’t start a brawl over it.  However, there are times when we would like you to step up and take the initiative, even if we don’t ask you to.  Never make your girl make the first move, open her own car door or introduce herself to your family, friends, or colleagues.  That’s your job, guys, and don’t’ you forget that.

Getting Your Girl to Make an Adult Sex Tape

Women are sensitive creatures, so launching yourself at her whilst holding a camera will not win you a recorded adult sex video with her.  And if you think that making home movies of you two under the sheets is a distant dream, think again.  Using a little strategic Prince Charming moves will make you bask in the desired outcome forever.  Here are a few tips to help you make sure she doesn’t run away in terror.

If you really want to make kinky amateur adult sex videos regularly and not just a one off thing, then never evaluate each other’s performance.  The only sure way to convince her to do it again is to be super sensitive.

No one can be more critical of a woman than she herself, and giving “constructive” accounts of her performance on film will never go well for you.  The important thing to remember is everything that comes out of your mouth while watching the video footage must be of praise and admiration.  If not, then shut your trap.
Make your favorite parts of the video known to her, how much it turns you on, and how sexy and gorgeous you think she is.  She will be so flattered, she would want to give it another shot.

By far, the most essential element of the whole process is trust.  She must know that she’s not going to be that girl with a facial shot that magically appeared in all of the guys’ cell phones in your city.

Your safest and easiest bet to prove you won’t turn her into a porn star in a fit of breakup rage is to let her keep the only copy of the recording.  It’s 2012 and digital recordings are easier to share, so let her keep it and swear to keep it strictly between you even if the relationship hits an untimely demise.

If you want a huge pay off, you must put a little effort in it.  This means a spiffy bedroom sans all the traces of food, animals or any other type of clutter that can be an eye sore.  However disreputable your intentions are, you must never let her know.  As far as she’s concerned, you are the most romantic man she has ever known, and thinks of no other woman but her.

Clean up, put in clean sheets and dim the lights.  If you can take it, light some scented candles.  Women love them, and will always do.  If your place is just ghastly, book a hotel.  Now that everything’s set up, you’re ready to shoot.

How to Pick Up Sexy Girls on Facebook

As we all know, social media websites are useful tools that can help you find smokin’ sexy girls that may share common friends, backgrounds, and interests with you.  If you want to score sexy girls that love basketball and beer-chugging, Facebook may be your golden ticket.  Seven percent of the world’s population is currently using this social networking site, which translates to 21 million women that could possibly be your next potential ex girlfriend.  However, you should be careful in navigating your way through the uncharted terrain of social media dating.  You wouldn’t want to send a message to all the sexy girlsthat are in your “People You May Know” list.  Here are a few tips to help you pick up chicks without looking like a total creeper.

•  Have a flattering profile photo

Nothing shouts “I am not date material” louder than a picture of your old fratboy days, chugging beer in a bong.  Remember, a good first impression is key.
Use a photo that is naturally pleasing to the eyes.  Try uploading one with you watching a basketball game or one that shows you playing with your dog.  Girls are going to love it.

•  Include a list of your activities and interests

If you intend to connect with a hottie who shares the same love you have for Rebecca Black, then by all means include that ghastly bit of information in your profile interests.  This will help women find out about your dynamic personality and eclectic taste in music.
Another good idea is to join fan pages and interest groups.  This can expand your dating network and help you meet a cutie that you can actually connect with.

•  Browse through your local network

Try looking for girls that are located in your own city.  Browse through your local network and get in touch with loads of hotties in your own backyard.
Also, go through a list of your friend’s friends.  This gives you a common personal connection and a good ice breaker for a potential first date.

•  Use the poke feature

This may look childish and cheesy, but Facebook’s “poke” feature is just the online version of throwing rocks at your kindergarten crush.  There is something about a cute and flirty interaction that a lot of girls appreciate.

•  Use the chat feature

If you want to take your flirtation to the next level, send a personal online message directly to her.  This will surely get immediate results, so you won’t spend hours or even days brooding if she’ll ever respond.

The Best Places to Have Adult Sex

Familiarity breeds contempt, so when having adult sex with your girl, you need to mix it up a bit.  How?  Experiment try something new.  Try having adult sex at places you wouldn’t normally do, basically.  Bang her someplace you would normally do something except have adult sex, like drive, wash or swim.  Good?  I thought so.

•  In a Tent

Pros:  Banging in a tent can be a fun thing to do.  If you’re having a marvelous time at a festival, all buzzed up as you giggle back to the campsite in your red Indian outfit when it starts to rain, sex in a cozy tent when it’s can be a pretty fun way to let the downpour pass and stay dry.  It’s also relatively comfortable to do if you can avoid being fallen on by an intoxicated carouser.
Cons:  Doing it here may feel like you’re in a bedroom, however, you are not really in a bedroom.  The only thing that separates your stark naked bodies from the elements is a piece of canvas that is by no means soundproof.

•  In a Hotel

Pros:  Sex and room service that’s what staying in hotels is all about.  Relaxing in a hotel all-day long and rolling around in fluffy clean sheets you’ll never have to wash sounds about perfect.
Cons:  However, you may think the ‘do not disturb’ sign at the door means don’t come in, but it really doesn’t.  So unless you don’t want housekeeping to come in and see you doing the nasty, then it would be prudent to get sex out of the way before 10am.  And whatever you do, don’t let the thought of the hundreds of other guys who have unloaded in your bed creep you out.

•  On the Beach

Pros:  You’re on a holiday at some resort and the sound of the waves crashing on a warm night is just enough amount of cheese to be romantic, and the element of danger in being caught out in the open makes it exciting.
Cons:  Sand on the genitals is not really pleasant if you think about it, so be mindful of the friction factor.   That may sound similar to a Simon Cowell reality talent show, but it can really hurt.  If it’s possible, find a deck chair or a small grassy patch of land to avoid any undesirable injuries.

Wow Sexy Women with Words

Do you want to be an expert pick up artist?  Here are a few easy steps to woo sexy women with words.

•  Don’t Put Yourself Down

Self-deprecation can be funny under the right circumstances, but this isn’t one of them.  Sexy women like guys who are oozing with confidence.

•  Get Her to Talk

No man can score on sexy women just by talking them into submission, so your goal is to engage her in conversation.  Questions about relationships work well, like getting her take on something.  Tell her that a buddy of yours thinks that when a woman leaves a man, it’s always the man’s fault, but you think that’s extreme.  90 percent of the time she’ll think about what you said and react; 10 percent of the time she’ll just brush it off.  But whatever she does leads to the next step…

•  Challenger Her

Mocking her in jest is important as it shows you are not treating her as special, so gently ridicule her response to put her on the back foot and let her know you are unimpressed, which is something she is not used to.

•  Demonstrate Value

This is very important.  You need to stand out from all the other guys in the room by doing something that can make you look special.  This is what demonstrating value is, and this comes from the fact that many sexy women have a void inside them, because they think that a lot of guys just talk to them mainly for their looks.  You can fill this void by talking to “the woman inside,” and have them learn something spiritual about themselves.

•  Make Your Move on a Cliffhanger

At some point in the process, you may have to move to a “quieter location.”  But when you do, you will need to 1) do it in the middle of a story, so the cliffhanger will make it look natural to come with you, and 2) point out that it’s only going to be just a few minutes, so it will feel like there’s nothing to lose.

•  Set Up a Takeaway

This will come after you’ve whisked her away from her friends.  While finishing your story, make it look like you just noticed a friend who “will kill you if you don’t say hi.”  This may seem risky, but it works because it means you leave her all alone, which will make her feel lost, and shows you are confident enough to leave her.

•  And Finally, Seed Your Next Location

Guys who are desperate go for the kill during the first meeting.  On the other hand, successful men seed in the next place they are going and describe how awesome it is.  Rave on about how fantastic this place is, but don’t invite her directly.  Instead, shift on a different subject.  And when you are about to leave, say, “You know what?  I’m sure you’ll enjoy this place too.  Maybe you should come join us.”

Adult Sex Tips: Going Burlesque in the Bedroom

You don’t have to wait for a burlesque dance troupe to hit your city just to enjoy retro adult sex antics.  Thanks to our panel of experts made up of a scene stalwart and a dance instructor, you will be able to recreate Club Noir in the comforts of your home.  Your only requirement:  a relatively willing partner.

•  Shopping – Fashion lingerie company La Perla’s Black Label collection will give you an imaginative twist on the vintage burlesque genre.  For purists, they can always opt for corsets from Vollers, a British corset company established in 1899.  There are also online burlesque shopping boutique’s to check out like What Katie Did for fluffy girls and Modern Courtesan for those high-maintenance ones.

•  Setting the Mood – In setting the right mood, lighting is very important.  Ditch those overhead bulbs and opt instead to go sultry with lamplight using a soft red bulb.

•  Soundtrack – Jazz music works better than classic musical hall tunes.  You will need something that’s slow, so don’t be tempted to use tracks from the Pussycat Dolls.  If all you’ve got is an old CD with James Bond themes, it could work.

•  Props – Artistes use boas, ostrich feathers, gloves and cigarette holders to slowly remove in their routines.  You can peruse over Bo’s Tit Bits site (bos-tit-bits.com) and check out their sparkly nipple tassles (politically correct term:  pasties), masks and riding crops.  Red velvet curtains help the audience be removed from the fact that they are in a lounge.

•  Chairs – The use of chairs can be awesome.  You can do the sexy Sharon Stone quick flash, and, of course, prop your leg up on the chair to remove your stockings.

•  Stockings – Wearing stockings is very essential.  There will be lots of rubbing them up and down that, plus sexy finger wagging.  Stick your thumb under the top elastic and ease it down.  Hold on to the back of the chair, throw the leg back, reach behind and pull it off so it snaps.

•  Gifts – A fantastic performance certainly deserves gratitude.  So what can you give her?  Diamonds, of course.  A bottle of bubbly is also appropriate.

The Routine

•  Strut and Tease – The catwalk strut is the basic walk.  There should be no slouching, back straight, butt out and head raised up confidently.  Your movements should be all about the tease and the premise of mind-blowing adult sex move slowly and savor the performance.  This requires a lot of focus and sensuality compared to just dancing naked around a pole.

Massage Tips: Rubbing Your Casual Sex Partners the Right Way

If you think a good massage involves greasing your casual sex partners up like a fast food burger, then our tantric masseuse gives you this handy guide to becoming a massage maestro.  Read on.

•  Set the Scene

Your primary concern is making sure the room you’ll be using is nice and comfortable.  You’ll want your casual sex partners to feel relaxed.  Use some towels to absorb the massage oil.  Make use of soft lighting scented candles or dim lamps because it’s more flattering.  Ask her to take a shower first, so she’s clean and has warm skin.

•  The Feet

For a relaxing start, go with the feet first.  A good foot massage will immediately make her feel relaxed and forget all her troubles.  Firmly but gently work along the sole.  You don’t have to spend much time there, but just a few minutes can make a huge difference.

•  The Legs

Move on to her legs and use long, smooth strokes, using your palms while keeping your fingers together.  The objective of a sensual massage is to build her into a state of excitement, so stroke over her butt.  At this point, you could stroke her gently down between her legs, slowly exciting her with your fingers.  It is crucial to maintain a gentle touch throughout this process.

•  The Back

Use similar strokes up her back and around the shoulders.  Many women really like it when guys play with their neck and ears, so blow gently into her ear and around her neck.  If you can’t help it, you could also use a little tongue, but just a little.  You wouldn’t want to slobber over her like a St. Bernard over dropped ice cream.  She will definitely not like this.
•    The Abdomen
Regardless of what a woman says, she is likely to be a little paranoid about her tummy.  This is the reason why women prefer to be massaged when they’re lying on her stomach.  It makes them feel safe and comfortable.  To do this, it’s better to start with her face down, and just try to turn her over once she feels more relaxed.

•  The Breasts

Once you have her turned over and lying flat on her back, gently stroke the outside area of her breasts in long figures of eight.  She may even enjoy it if you blow gently on her nipples.

•  The Yoni

Yoni is a Sanskrit word for vagina.  For this part, you should switch from massage oil to lubricant.  When she’s lying face down, move your hand between her legs and gently stroke her down to the labia.  Move along to the length of each other lip, gently holding it between your forefinger and thumb for an extended moment.  This will result in a highly sexual experience.

Dating Tips Online: To Pay or Not to Pay?

What’s the standard etiquette on paying for dinner on a first date? On principle, I don’t mind, but I go out on a lot of dates and it’s getting pretty expensive. And isn’t it also a little old-fashioned with the fact that most of these women earn as much, or even more, than I do? Does it look like I’m paying in return for getting laid? What do you do? – Brian Mitchell

To help Brian and give him a couple of dating tips online, we asked the assistance of two different women with slightly different takes on the matter.  Which of these dating tips online is better?  You be the judge.

Offering to pay for dinner on a first date is not like paying for you to bang her. It sends out a message to the girl you’re dating, saying “I’m a man. I will build you things and rid you of spiders and other creepy crawlies while you bake your cake.”  Not offering to pay, or even suggesting to split the bill on a first date is deplorable.  If I was out on a date with you and you got your wallet out upon asking for the check, I would probably offer to share, unless you’ve spent the whole evening just talking about yourself.  Maybe that’s where your mistakes lie? – Helen

Yes, I agree.  It’s totally old-fashioned, but girls love it.  However, you should take this as a compliment, because if I don’t like the guy, I’ll insist on paying half I don’t want to feel indebted to him.  But if I do like him, I will let him pay.  Technically, if you asked her out on a date, it’s considered an invitation with you as the host, which would apply regardless if your guest is a guy or a girl.  Why not take your dates for a cocktail after work?  It’s going to save you time and money.  Sure, it may be a little straightforward, but in this way you can be more selective on who you want to take out for dinner.

Finding the Right Wingman to Help You Meet Sexy Girls

A good wingman is like your own personal spotter when you’re on a sniping mission to score on sexy girls. So which buddy will you best benefit from?  Here are four qualities to consider when choosing a reliable sidekick that will help you in the trenches.

1.    Eagle Eye Vision

An effectively good wingman should have the ability to scout out the most doable sexy girls with superhuman precision. He should be also be able to spot women with engagement or wedding rings from across a room and must have spider-sense that lets him know which are on the rebound, horny, or just psycho-crazy.  He can also tell you in just mere seconds whether the girl you’re into is a waste of time or worth the $7 drink you’re buying her.  He will assess the crowd, so you don’t even have to.  This will help you focus on looking cool, confident and collected.

2.    Does Recon

It is a wingman’s major duty to gather and remember all useful information.  He must be able to know all the details regarding the target, including the names of her friends.  It is important that he is funny, outgoing, yet subtle.  He should be charming, a smooth talker, and unaffected by rejection.  A good wingman doesn’t have second thoughts in making himself look silly, corny or clueless to iron out a situation for you.  It’s a job well done if he makes you look like Superman.

3.    Will Take a Bullet

A very efficient wingman can and will take one for the team if the situation calls for it.  He will focus his attention on the chubby friend, the protective sister, or drunk colleague.  If needed, he will take home the “not so pretty” girl.  A true wingman doesn’t need to prove he can get girls, because you are his top priority, and in under any situation will he ever attempt to cockblock you.  What he’ll do instead is seek out and remove any possible hurdles, so you could easily sashay you way, steal the scene, and get the girl.

4.    Has Your Back at All Times

Like a personal assistant, a true wingman is there to ensure you don’t have anything stuck between your teeth, you smell good, or your breath isn’t bad.  Toilet paper stuck under your shoe?  He’ll steps on it to take it away.  Tag sticking out your jacket?  He swings in to make you look like red carpet material.  And one more thing:  by no means should he look better than you.

Dating Tips Online - Do's and Don'ts

For many years now, internet has become part of our everyday life. Whether it is used for communication, job search, hobbies, research, studying or just searching anything- name it- everything can be found at the internet. In fact, even dating can now happen thru the use of internet. Online dating has become popular way of meeting and dating people. In recent studies, it shows that a large number of couples have met either through online dating services or through other places on the internet and now have a successful love story.

If you are a single, wants a date but inexperienced or you are just too shy, then online dating is the best solution. There are many online dating site found on the internet whether you are looking for a serious date or a date just for fun. Online dating offers the opportunity to communicate freely and get to know each other before actually meeting face to face.

With online dating you are not going to be judge by your physical appearance rather by the way you speak. Also, you have the chance not to meet one person but a huge number of people. Joining an online dating site will also help you boost your confidence and gain many friends.

So how can you exactly enjoy and benefit from this brave new world? Well, the answer really depends on how you will handle yourself once you are sitting in front of your computer, searching for someone and connecting with them. Here are the do's and don'ts for dating online that can help you maximize your online experience and hopefully, have you on the way to finding your perfect match.

DO’s:
Dating tips online #1: Be Honest. Make sure that you are completely honest with what you put on your profile. The whole purpose of online dating is to find someone who will likes you, so it is very important that you are honest in writing down your interest, likes and what makes you nerve. Don't put anything that is unreal for the sake of impressing someone else. Being honest goes along with being positive and being realistic.

Dating tips online #2: Be Precise. Be specific and concise. No one would like to read a very long profile of yours. Tell directly who and what do you want to meet. And at the same time, think about who you are and what makes you unusual, and list both your successes and your failures.

Dating tips online #3: Be a good listener. Online dating is a two way communication dating (just like in real world). One should know how to listen. If your online date mate is not listening, be cautious as this could be the sign that he doesn't like you.

Dating tips online #4: Be careful on what you say. Avoid talking issues about religion and politics not until you are close enough with person you chatting with. Learn to communicate with others in the way in which they feel most comfortable.

Dating tips online #5: Use only your photo. Make sure that is the updated one. Don't ever lie with your picture. Keep in mind that if your online dating becomes successful, you will still have to face him or her in the real world. And of course you would not like to disappoint your partner just because you posted a wrong photo of yours.

Dating tips online #6: Never ever give your personal information such as your complete name, home or company address or home phone number. You can at least provide him/ her your cellphone number. Remember, above anything else, safety first!

Dating tips online #7: Don’t continue to communicate with someone who mysteriously disappears then comes back online under another identity.

Dating tips online #8: Meet only in public places and make sure someone knows where you are.

Dating tips online #9: Be ready for rejection. You can always be ignored by the person you like on the internet but remember there are many fish in the sea. Don't lose hope. Be patient in looking for another one. Remember, there are millions of singleton who is looking for a perfect soulmate too.

Dating tips online #10: Enjoy and make the most out of online dating services. Connect with cool people from anywhere you choose at the pace, time, and location that is best for you.
Play it smart but keep an open mind. Be smart and have fun.

Adult Dating Thrills without Breaking the Bank

Happiness when you are married is actually cheaper than you think. Believe it or not, it won’t even go beyond twenty bucks, max, at least according to our expert writers who strongly believe that happiness don’t really have to cost a fortune when you are hitched. You can still do experience adult dating thrills without breaking the bank.

$20 Max Dates
Would it kill you if your wife knew you are a cheapskate? Well, chances are, she knows how much you have in the bank, your loans, mortgages and she knows pretty much that you have several bouncing kids that need to be fed, clothed and sent to college in the future. So if you’re a cheapskate, then there’s a huge possibility that she would still appreciate it. You don’t have to bother with a super-date where virtuosi serenade you if you really have to budget your money.

It’s still great to just have a simple dinner and a movie or a long walk at sunset or window shopping at a mall. You can go wine tasting, museum hopping or just simply pack a lunch and go picnic at the lake or at the Mountain View.

It wouldn’t kill you too, if you save $20 every time you received your salary (which is twice a month) and then have a big surprise date by the end of the year or in your anniversary.

Affordable Lingerie
The great thing about cheap lingerie is that they could also get lacey and sexy and what’s better is that you can rip them apart easily and your wife wouldn’t even care if it’s ruined since it’s cheap anyway. Lingerie shopping aside from lingerie tearing in bed, is a fun way to spend time with your partner. You can get great opinions from your better half about what you will be strapping yourself with in the future. You don’t have to spend so much money on expensive lingerie, just go for affordable ones.

Affordable Jewelry
After the lingerie then you should definitely go for affordable jewelry. Buying jewelry can be quite intimidating for a lot of people but you don’t have to go through all the trouble of going to a jewelry shop. You can take your partner to a crafts fair or art fair with hobos and hippies selling their homemade stuff on blankets laid on the pavement. There are handmade beads and your partner can even do it herself. Cheap, no trouble and very convenient.

These adult dating tips will definitely not push you to a state of brokenness. And instead will push your relationship on to a new level of romance and intimacy.

Hookup Dating and Love Side Effects

Have you been experiencing some of these side effects of hookup dating or having sex with your partner? Research shows that when ladies are in love or just hookup dating with someone they experience side effects. Fortunately, these side effects are nothing to be worried about, we actually encourages you to have sex so that you’ll have these side effects when in a relationship! People may want to have these side effects immediately upon discovering the great things about it. So as not to stall too long, here we have our love side effects that you should be getting when in a relationship.

Love Side Effects 1: Healthy Breasts
The benefit of the intimate affection that your partner gives you has several ways than one. Breast lumps in women are initially noticed by their own partners said Donnica Moore, M.D., the author of Women’s Health for Life, who stresses that early detection is the key to beating breast cancer. Of course, your part shouldn’t be your only detections device, you should also try checking yourself and try to talk to a doctor about clinical breast exams.

Love Side Effects2: Thicker Hair
Your partner may sometimes make you want to pull out your own hair but women who are in happy relationships have hair that are 2.3 times as thick as those who have lost a partner or gotten divorced. This new research from Case Western University in Cleveland claims. The difference is perhaps due to the added stress, the researchers say. However, if you notice thinning then you should talk to a doctor about anxiety and other possible culprits like lack of vitamins or event the possibility of thyroid issues.

Love Side Effects 3: Sleep like a baby
This is one is probably one of the best side effects there is. Women who are in strong marriages are 50 percent less prone to have trouble sleeping or staying asleep compared with unhappily paired ladies, according to a study from the University of Pittsburgh. It seems that the sense of safety and security that you can get from happy coupling can give you the blessing of resting easier. If you are sleeping alone then remember that a consistent bedtime routine can help greatly says study author Wendy Troxel, Ph. D.

These hookup dating and love side effects would definitely leave you enjoying a relationship more. So enjoy and stay in love.

A How to Guide in Hookup Dating the Four Types of Women

Attempt to talk to an impudent alpha female, using lines taken from “The Notebook” and she’ll probably shove a box of chocolates down your throat. Try teasing a shy girl about how her nose flares up when she talks, she might bawl uncontrollably. What you need to have to be a great pick up artist is calibration: using the right tools for the right situation. Every individual is different, but there are four major categories of characters you’re likely to encounter on a regular basis. Each of them has a code that needs to be cracked, so checkout our helpful guide below in hookup dating these types of women.

• The Ring Leader

Most likely to be seen: In the middle of her social circle with her friends at her command, defending them from men who would try to hit on them, and reigning over the birdhouse. She’s the boss and she knows it.

How to seduce her: Be alert for any signs of weakness. She is strong, and will not fully respect a man who is unwilling to challenge her. Just go with the flow and you’ll be able to stick around. Girls like guys who can partly agree with them, but who aren’t also afraid to voice their own opinions.

• The Cheerleader

Most likely to be seen: She is the super social babe, always laughing and surrounded by a group of her loyal friends—some she has known for more than ten years, others just over five minutes.

The cheerleader is the type who is always full of life and energy, so the last thing she wants is to go hookup dating with someone who will drag her down, or prevent her inner ball of fire from all those adventures waiting for her out there. The best thing to do is to approach her with as much energy, passion, enthusiasm and that megawatt smile.

• The Bookworm

More likely to be seen: They are now found in computer labs more than the library nowadays. The bookworm is quiet, analytical and not really impressed by any tricks involving cards, magic and other silly maneuvers that could make her friends squirm.

How to seduce her: This is the polar opposite of the cheerleader, which is someone who won’t appreciate you disturbing the order of her universe with anything clichéd, unfortunate, and humorous move. If you want to be funny, try channeling black comedies instead of slapstick. They are naturally aloof, so they don’t have the need to make new friends. This makes being friendly not much of an option. Be observant and have a calm demeanor when making an approach, with a kind of British secret agent coolness. Avoid delivering meaningless jokes, and instead be low energy and appear lost in thought. Once you’ve hooked her by showing that you too can be calm, cultured and not in the slightest bit melodramatic, impress her with a logistically well-thought date plan.

• The Hippie

Most likely to be seen: Speaking about vibes, energy, karma, the cosmic universe, and the astrological signs, the hippie can either be an outsider or a social butterfly.

How to seduce her: Look around for commonalities—ones based on experiences and feeling always rank higher than musical preferences—and then deliver them as if you’d just had an epiphany. “Vibe” is also a good word you can use to define why you approached her, which is perfect for concealing the fact that the reason why you made a move is because she was rocking in that fab see-through top.

Tips on Hooking Up With Someone from a One Night Stand Website

• Be Punctual

Allow enough prep time to put in that last stroke of blush or the last few sprays of cologne without running late. Being late for a date is a big no-no for this gives the impression of being disrespectful of your potential partner’s time. This also shows how you might be in the future. It can start the date on the wrong foot as your potential partner you met at a one night stand website sits and waits for you, dulling the excitement of the date itself.

• Do Not Be Desperate

There is nothing worse than having someone clutching you tightly on the hem of your skirt. Never chase someone—too much persistence can be a turn off. If you find yourself in a situation wherein your calls, text messages and emails are left unanswered, it may be smart to stop because it is definitely overkill. It is a very good sign of desperation, which can make anyone run in the opposite direction.

• Do Not Hookup with a Moocher

If you think it’s bad enough to be with someone on a date that lets you take out something out of your bag whenever he needs anything, wait till you hookup with someone who lets you pay for everything. Never let your date know, especially someone you met on a one night stand website, how much you earn. This will definitely put you at a disadvantage if you are hooking up with a moocher.

• Do Not Lie

Honesty is definitely the best policy. There is actually no reason to exaggerate your stories, so why bother? You are already on your first hookup this means she is already attracted to you. There is absolutely no reason to pretend or lie at this point.

• Do Not Come on Too Strong

Whatever your reason is for going out on a date, whether it is for hooking up or for a serious relationship, do not come on too strong. Constantly talking about what you are after is a huge turn off, especially on a first hookup date. You will most certainly have your potential partner feel like they are there to fill a gap.

• Do Not Play the Waiting Game

Never put things on hold and be proactive. Do not wait around for your potential partner to contact you. However, it may be smart not to always be available.

• Do Not Hookup When Under the Influence

It is imperative that you follow this tip. First impressions are very important so do not ruin it by being intoxicated or worse, high on drugs.

• Do Not Flirt with Other People

This is one of the surest ways to have your date lose interest in you. Refrain from hooking up with other people while you’re on a date with one, if you don’t want end the night early.

Tips for Guys Who Are Looking to Date at an Online Dating Web Site

When you guys decide to find a match at an online dating web site, what you need to understand is how to make your own profile stand out from the rest. There are three things you need to focus on: putting your best and accurate photos out there, focusing on things that make you quirky and unique, and send as many emails as possible. Let’s go through these and prep you up to go dating at an online dating web site.

• Photos

Always remember to put your best pictures out there—as long as they have an accurate depiction of you. Two great photos win over five mediocre photos any day. Women just need one bad photo to decide not to connect with you because of it.

Refrain from posting photos of you with your buddies. Women will tend to compare you with them. It’s hard enough to compete with other men at an online dating web site. Let women see just you.

Getting in front of someone after you’ve posted inaccurate pictures won’t win her over; it will drive her away.

The last picture you should post is your most interesting picture. Now that you’ve shown your best photos and have let them know you are good looking, it’s time to give them something to help them break the ice and start a conversation. Post a photo of you bungee jumping, with your pet dog or of you as a volunteer helping sick kids. These are things that can set you apart from the others, and women will surely ask about it.

• Profile Rules

Write things about yourself that women would want to know about—things that make you quirky and unique. To catch women’s attention, have a bold intro that makes potential partners want to read the rest.

Make sure you just put in the right amount of content about yourself. Avoid being short and vague. Conversely, don’t write your profile too long—this can be a nuisance to read. Go over your profile and see if you want to read more then adjust accordingly.

Ask questions even if they are rhetorical. It’s a good way to start a conversation and connect with women.

• Sending Emails

Important tips in sending out emails are to keep it short, as light as possible and end your messages with a question. Make sure to refer to something in her profile and something about yourself. Follow all these to the letter and you’re good to go.

Remember, if you don’t receive a response, don’t be discouraged. At the end of the day, it’s all a numbers game. The more emails you send out, the higher your chances of getting a response. So go find an online dating web site and have fun!

Tips for Guys When Dating Through an Online Dating Web Site

Through the years, hooking up through an online dating web site has shed off more of the negative connotations attached to this activity. Fortunately, this means more men can search an online dating web site for potential partners either for a one night hookup or a soul mate with just a few clicks of the mouse button. However, this doesn’t mean online dating is easy. If you want to have a high batting average in your online dating activities, here are a few helpful tips.

• Take In Their Best Photo with a Grain of Salt

The “Law of Smoke and Mirrors” should strictly be followed all the time. What you should do is examine her worst picture and ask yourself if you are fine with that. In fact, if you if you refer to her as “that,” it’s probably a good sign to move on to the next.

• Be Adaptive to Changing Trends

If a certain method works for you and another does not, alter your strategy accordingly.

• Cast Your Net Wide

The key to introducing yourself to a woman you are interested in is by not going into too much detail about yourself in your online dating web site profile. Just touch on the basics and leave an aura of mystery. However, this doesn’t mean you should write something boring and generic.

• Spelling and Grammar Counts

Incorrect grammar and spelling can make an intelligent person look stupid. So when sending messages or writing something about yourself on your profile, make sure to proofread everything. You have learned everything you needed to know about grammar and spelling in the fourth grade.

• Upload Photos of Positivity

Epic photos of you doing something you are good at are great to post. It’s fine to upload photos of you with other women, as long as you don’t look like a pompous douchebag out banging women as if it was some kind of sport. Most importantly, post photos you look good in. It shows confidence.

• Update Your Profile Picture Regularly

This will usually get you up on the main page of an online dating web site or closer to the front when a girl does a search. Moreover, the less activity you have on your profile, the less interaction it will get from searches.

• Do Not Be Discouraged

Online dating can be merciless. You will most likely get passed on, ignored or even forgotten a huge number of times, but that’s okay. There will be times, no matter how infrequent, you will find someone to connect with and that’s what it is all about.

Signs You Are Hookup Dating a Psycho Girlfriend

There are puppy haters and Rob Zombie fans, but there are also decent-looking women who may have a little, or a lot of crazy in them. Be wary of these traits when hookup dating a potentially psychotic girlfriends.

• She is crazy jealous of Brooklyn Decker

If this potential hookup dating partner turns a shade of red when you happen to chance on Brooklyn’s blonde hair and gorgeous ass, chances are this crazy woman’s insecurities will drive you up the wall.

• Nights out with the boys infuriate her

No sane woman should care that you want to spend time with your male friends on some nights, unless you’re stumbling home wasted with barf bits all over your clothes and a mild case of herpes. Go forth and run with your wolfpack! Leave the girls with their Gossip Girl episodes, chattering about their menstrual cycles while you guys are out playing poker and talking about nice butts or whatever it is guys talk about. If your girl freaks out over these casual outings, it isn’t normal.

• You suddenly have a lot in common

Sharing the same favorite authors, songs and picking up each other’s slang—these are a few of the awesome parts of being in a cool relationship. However, if she’s nearly committing identity theft, like switching from being a Republican to a Democrat, it’s probably smart to move away slowly. It’s not surprising if she starts to hack into your social networking accounts.

• She “hates” other women

I’m pretty sure you’ve heard these lines before: “I hate other women” and “I get along better with guys.” Activate the internal cuckoo alarm. If she has more guy pals, that’s fine. However, for a woman to say she “hates” other women? This is not a good sign. This can be interpreted in a few ways: 1) Other women don’t like her because she tries to compete with them (i.e. she flirts with their boyfriends); 2) She only attracts her own kind—awful women; 3) She hates herself. To all the ladies reading this, please stop saying you “hate” other women. It’s a disservice to everyone, including you.

• She’s stalking you on Facebook

Not only is her demand to change your relationship status from “single” to “in a relationship” lightning-quick, but she’s also made a picture you two as her profile picture the moment you hooked up dating. After which she asks you to do the same, saying she just wants all your friends to know that you’re together. Once you agree to this, she starts tagging herself in all your pictures—even those she’s not even in—just to let people know what a huge part of your life she is.

What Not to Do When Dating Through an Online Dating Web Site

For people who are into dating at an online dating web site, it may be inevitable that you finally get to meet up with one of your online dates in person. As with traditional dating, there are certain guidelines you must follow to have a successful date, regardless of your intentions, so making a good first impression is a must. Below are a few important guidelines on what NOT to do when going out on a date with a potential partner from an online dating web site.

• Tardiness

Being punctual is, of course, a definite requirement when going out on a date, and being late may be the most important thing to avoid. It is probably safe to say that no self-respecting person would want to hook up with somebody who cannot commit to his or her appointments on time. It most certainly projects a bad first impression. Even a few minutes of being late can be very damaging. However, being a tad bit too early should also be avoided as it can give the impression of being too eager, giving the indication of having too much on your hands. Therefore, make sure arrive on time—give and take a few minutes, of course. Fix your schedule so nothing can possibly come in the way of this.

• Coming on too strong

Respecting each other’s distance and personal space during the early stages of your date is absolutely essential both in an emotional, and especially on a physical sense. If it becomes apparent that you are not gentle and sensitive on the onset of your date, your potential partner may veer away from you and start avoiding you like the plague. Minimize body contact between you and your potential partner like casual or “accidental” touching of hands and the like. Refrain from having close contact if it is possible. And most importantly, do not touch a lady in an inappropriate manner. Women generally want to be treated with respect and not like a piece of meat. Under no circumstances whatsoever should you do this even if the situation presents itself like having the contents of her beverage spilled all over her bosom or if she falls over in an awkward manner.

• Staring

Despite what other people tell you, women don’t usually want to be ogled at like some piece of meat wanting to be devoured. While it is a given fact that women love to look good in the eyes of the opposite sex, it is rather impolite to stare at them for long periods of time. Moreover, it is not advisable to allow a lady to catch you gaping at her, most especially on her private areas of the body. This applies even if your potential partner came from an adult online dating web site.

• Being Obnoxious and Offensive

One of the most surefire ways to have your potential partner lose interest in you is by being an arrogant blockhead. Keep in mind that women are generally more sensitive than men, so if you don’t have anything good to say about certain topics in your conversation, it would be smart to not say anything about the matter at all. Be polite at all times, and it would help to be eloquent and witty at the same time.

Making First Impressions Last When Hookup Dating

Do you recall the first time you went out to go hookup dating? How about your first romantic getaway? Memories of your first successful date with someone are something you will most likely remember and end up reminiscing from time to time.

Long ago, going out on a date was considered as the orthodox method of finding a partner for life. But now, going out on dates has evolved into something entirely different—it has become more casual. Through the wonderful technology that is the Internet, online websites offer dating through their professional services. You create dating profiles online and connect with different people from all over.

The first meeting when going hookup dating is vital. This is may be your first intimate encounter with a stranger—someone you hardly know but can’t wait to meet and discover if he or she feels the same way about you. The excitement, apprehension and anxiety you may feel is all part of the hookup dating process, hoping that you meet the man that will sweep you off your feet or even take your breath away even under the sheets.

However, life, as we know it, is not a fairy tale, and there are times that as much as we do not want it to happen, we end up heartbroken. We always daydream and imagine everything to be perfect. Even if women have good intuition and are good readers of human behavior, they tend to stumble and fall. Dating mistakes can destroy a potentially beautiful relationship, and you often find that the pettiest of mistakes and carelessness can hurt a promising bright and happy future. First dates are usually a nerve-wracking experience even for the more experienced daters who can become silent and unnaturally reserved or capable of silly awkward behavior which can ruin their chances of a second date even before the first date is over.

Here are a few tips on how to make a good first impression when hookup dating:

• Do not look desperate. People love challenges, and getting something easily can disappoint them, which can make your date easily lose interest if he or she sees something disappointing in you.
• Always be confident. This will make you look sexier. Don’t be too reserved and compliant so you can be more interesting.
• Do not be bossy and clingy. No man is thrilled at the prospect of someone who is very possessive. Even married men need their space, and it is absolutely preposterous to think he will enjoy the company of a nag.
• Do not pressure your potential partner to talk about commitments. Most likely, this will scare them off.
• Always swipe clean your dating slate every time you go out with somebody new. This will make you avoid comparing lovers, which can do more harm than good.
• Appreciate all the efforts given to you in making the special evening happen.
• Dress appropriately. This can set the mood.
• Always be yourself. You can never go wrong with this.
• Avoid being late. Being punctual can jumpstart the date with a nice mood.
• A little alcohol can keep things interesting. Don’t go overboard though.

First dates will always be extra special to you, giving you reason to feel anxious and excited all at the same time. These simple hookup dating suggestions can help ensure that you always have pleasant memories of that first date with that special someone.